Relationship of the numbers

Lesson 8: Relationship Numerology
Relationship numerology is undoubtedly the best part of advanced numerology, since it can be applied successfully in anybody’s daily life. The aim of this lesson is to equip you with the ability of assessing the unfavorable nature of the numbers 2, 4, 8 and 9, and understanding the internal relationship between the name and birth date of a person, and the external relationships a person would have with other people.
It will also provide you with the apparatus of suggesting ways and means, numerically, to improve the harmony in relationships between people, and between persons and things.
Please test your understanding of this information by taking the multiple choice test at the end of this lesson.
The Weak and Dangerous Numbers
Advanced numerology insists on a harmonious relationship between the name and birth date of a person, known as the internal relationship, to avoid inner contradictions, to ensure smooth success, and to lead a happy life on this planet. It also specifies how to maintain cordial relations with each and everybody and how to avoid quarrels and anxieties and lead a peaceful life. Harmony between a name and the birth date of a person develops through vibrations of numerical values representing the two factors. When there is no vibration and harmony between the two, conflicting interests would crop up disturbing peace and tranquility in one’s life.
It is already explained in section 2 of value numerology that 2 is the weakest number and 4 is an unfortunate number. 8 is the most unfortunate one and 9 is a destructive power. Because of these tendencies, the power of these numbers should never be allowed to be repeated in one’s life. Numbers 2, 4, 8, or 9 persons should be cautious enough not to repeat the power of these numbers in their lives.
This means that if the numerical value of a person‘s birth date (only the date is to be considered, and not the month or year) equals 2, 4, or 8, it is better not to have names whose numerical value equals the value of anyone of these birth dates. It should be strictly observed if one wants to have a trouble free life. A number 9 person must take care not to repeat the influence of 9.
Students must have a clear understanding of these numbers.
A small example makes things very clear for them. A number 2, 4, or 8 person must not do any important thing on a date which equals any one of these numbers. These persons must not live in streets or houses whose numerical values equal any one of these numbers.
These people should also not travel in trains or buses whose total number equals 2, 4, or 8 if they want to avoid accidents or failures in journeys. Such repeated occurrence for the persons of these numbers is always dangerous.
These precautions should be strictly kept in mind if they want to have a harmonious and peaceful life.
Number 8 is the most unfortunate one. It is the source for anybody’s distress, depression, or melancholy. So, number 8 people must take care to see that this number is not repeated in their lives in any form. They should invariably try to avoid its repetition to escape sudden tragic happenings in their lives.
Though the number 9 is a highly powerful number, one should not forget about the destructive nature of this number. Number 9 people must be vigilant of the repetition of this number in their lives. If more and more events are related to number 9 in some way or the other in their lives, they are likely to suffer from accidents, quarrels and injuries. They should be especially cautious of the repetition of this number while traveling or in arguments, as it may lead to accidents or fighting respectively.
Recurrence of this number may cause fire tragedies as well, since this number represents the element of fire.
Not Fully Bad
It must be noted that these numbers are not absolutely bad and dangerous. They are good for certain purposes depending on their characteristics.
For example,
you can offer a loan to a number 4 person who would certainly repay it with due thanks, as he does not generally touch others’ money. This quality comes to him from his opposing nature to the accumulation of wealth. But please note that a number 4 person is not fit for doing business as he is not a materialistic person and generally opts for straightforwardness which does not fit in the business qualities. Likewise, you can admit a number 4 person as your silent business partner as he would not be involved in business affairs. They are absolutely reliable people for any confidential work as they do not want to cause harm to others.
So, all numbers are not totally good or totally bad. Some numbers may be auspicious for some purposes and bad for some other purposes. For example, think of the quality of the

number 3. A number 3 person may come out successfully if he starts a school but fail miserably if he starts a night club or pharmacy. Please note that depending on a number’s quality, it should be found out whether it is suitable or not for a particular purpose.

Relationship of Numerology
Internal Relationship
In this section, we will explore what is good and what is bad for all numbers regarding the internal relationship. For example, a
number 1 person (please refer to section 1 in individual numerology ) has a name whose numerical value equals 1. It can be declared that there is a perfect vibration between the person’s name and date of birth, and that s/he would have a clear thought process in relation to her/his activities and programs, because the numerical values of the name and birth date are one and the same.
It must be remembered that one’s date of birth, whatever it is, can never be changed and one must try to bring one’s name into harmony with the birth date. For a number 1 person, the following numbers are stated to be in vibration and harmony with her/his birth date, as per the friends and foes concept explained in the section 3 of predictive numerology,
part 1:
1, 3, 7, 9 (in order priority)This order suggests that a number 1 person can have a name whose numerical value equals 1, 3, 7, or 9 when the equivalent values of the letters of his name are added up. Numbers 2 and 4 are dropped from the list of harmony numbers for a number 1 person for the reasons explained in section 1 of this lesson. Number 1 is included as a harmony number as it is always in vibration and harmony with its own number. If a number 1 person does not find vibration and harmony between her/his name and date of birth, he should change his name and have a new one which can produce harmony and vibration as suggested above. While changing the name and going for a new one, care should be taken not to go for a name which equals to 2 or 4 numerically.
You may ask what would happen if a number 1 person has already had a name which equals to 2 or 4 or any other number which is not in harmony numerically. Such number 1 people are also advised to change their names as per the harmony numbers suggested above. As a final alternative, a number 1 person can have a name which equals to its neutral number 5 numerically if s/he cannot find one which equals to 1, 3, 7 or 9 as the number 5 considers the

number 1 as a friend.
Suitable days for a number 1 person: Sunday, Thursday and Tuesday. (in order of priority)
Suitable dates for a number 1 person: 1,3,7,9,10,12,,16,18,19, 21,25,27,28,30 (see the use of double digit numbers in section 3 of this lesson) The combination of a suitable date and day, like a Sunday falling on a 1st or 10th, works out to be better for a number 1 person. Here also the preference goes first to Sunday, then to Thursday, and then finally to Tuesday.
Suitable colors and stone for a number 1 person: sun rise colors and ruby 3 carats.
Suitable professions for a number 1 person are anything related to the characteristics of number 1 persons as explained in section 1 of individual numerology.

Number 2
For a number 2 person, the following numbers are stated to be in vibration and harmony with his or her birth date:1, 7 (in order of priority)
This order suggests that a number 2 person can have a name whose numerical value equals 1or 7 when the equivalent values of the letters of his name are added up. Though the number 2 has no enemies, numbers 2 and 4 have been dropped from the list of harmony numbers for the reasons mentioned in section 1 of this lesson. Number 5 is also dropped as it considers the number 2 as an enemy despite the latter’s friendly nature towards the former and is capable of causing contradictions.
It must be noted that the number 2 is a weak number and a number 2 person would have some natural weaknesses inherited from the birth date and one must try to reduce its weaknesses instead of trying to enhance it by adopting a name equaling 2. If a number 2 person has already had a name which equals to 2,4, or 5 numerically, he or she is advised to change his or her name as per the harmony numbers suggested above. As a final alternative, a number 2 person can have a name which equals its neutral numbers 3 or 9, in order of priority, if s/he cannot find one which equals 1 or 7. Under any circumstances, s/he should not adopt a name equaling numbers 6 or 8, as 6 considers 2 as the enemy and 8 is the most unfortunate number.
Suitable days for a number 2 person: Sunday, Thursday and Tuesday (in order of priority)
Suitable dates for a number 2 person: 1, 3, 7, 9, 10, 12, 16, 18, 19, 21, 25, 27, 28, 30 (see the use of double digit numbers in section 3 of this lesson) The combination of a suitable date and day, like a Sunday falling on a 1st or 10th, on a 3rd or 21st works out to be better for a number 2 person. Here also the preference goes first to Sunday, then to Thursday and then finally to Tuesday.
Suitable colors and stone for a number 2 person: sun rise colors and ruby (3 carats).
Suitable professions for a number 2 person are anything related to the characteristics of number 2 persons as explained in section 1 of individual numerology.

Number 3
For a number 3 person, the following numbers are stated to be in vibration and harmony with his or her birth date: 1,3, 7 , and 9 (in order of priority). This order suggests that a number 3 person can have a name whose numerical value equals 1, 3, 7, or 9 when the equivalent values of the letters of the name are added up. Though number 3 considers 1, 2, 4, 7, and 9 as friendly numbers, 2 and 4 have been dropped from the list of harmony numbers for the reasons mentioned in section 1 of this lesson. Number 3is included as a harmony number as it is always in vibration and harmony with its own number.
If a number 3 person has already had a name which equals to 2 or 4 or any other number which is not in vibration with it numerically, he or she is advised to change his or her name as per the harmonious numbers suggested above. There is no other alternative to the number 3 people as the only neutral number 8 is the most unfortunate one.
Suitable days for a number 3 person: Thursday, Sunday and Tuesday (in order of priority)
Suitable dates for a number 3 person: 1, 3, 7, 9, 10, 12, 16, 18,19, 21, 25, 27,28, 30 (see the use of double digit numbers in section 3 of this lesson) The combination of a suitable date and day, like a Sunday falling on a 1st or 10th, on a 3rd or 21st works out to be better for a number 3 person. Here also the preference goes first to Thursday, then to Sunday, and then finally to Tuesday.
Suitable colors and stone for a number 3 person: gold and yellow colors and yellow Sapphire (3 carats).
Suitable professions for a number 3 person are anything related to the characteristics of number 3 persons as explained in section 1 of individual numerology.

Number 4
For a number 4 person, the following numbers are stated to be in vibration and harmony with his or her birth date: 1,3, 7 , and 9 (in order of priority). This order suggests that a number 4 person can have a name whose numerical value equals 1, 3, 7, or 9 when the equivalent values of the letters of his name are added up. Though the number 4 considers 1, 2, 3, 7, and 9 as friendly numbers, 2 has been dropped from the list of harmony numbers for the reasons mentioned in section 1 of this lesson. Number 4 is not included as a harmony number as it is always is an unfortunate number though it is in vibration and harmony with its own number. A number 4 date and a number 4 name may complicate matters further.
If a number 4 person has already had a name which equals 2 or 4 or any other number which is not in vibration with it numerically, he or she is advised to change his or her name as per the harmony numbers suggested above. As a final alternative, a number 4 person can have a name which equals to its neutral number 5 as the latter considers the former number as a friend.
Suitable days for a number 4 person: Sunday, Thursday and Tuesday (in order of priority)
Suitable dates for a number 3 person: 1, 3, 7, 9,10, 12, 16, 18,19, 21, 25, 27,28, 30 (see the use of double digit numbers in section 3 of this lesson) The combination of a suitable date and day, like a Sunday falling on a 1st or 10th, on a 3rd or 21st works out to be better for a number 4 person. Here also the preference goes first to Sunday, then to Thursday and then finally to Tuesday.
Suitable colors and stone for a number 4 person: sun rise colors and ruby 3 carats.
Suitable professions for a number 4 person are anything related to the characteristics of number 4 persons as explained in section 1 of individual numerology.

Number 5
For a number 5 person, the following numbers are stated to be in vibration and harmony with his or her birth date: 1, 5, 6 (in order of priority). This order suggests that a number 5 person can have a name whose numerical value equals 1, 5, or 6 when the equivalent values of the letters of his name are added up. Though number 5 considers 1, 4, and 6 as friendly numbers, 4 has been dropped from the list of harmony numbers for reasons already known to students. Number 5 is included as a harmony number as it is always in vibration with its own number. If a number 5 person has already had a name which equals 2 or 4 or any other number which is not in vibration with it numerically, he or she is advised to change his or her name as per the harmony numbers suggested above. There is no alternative for a number 5 person as the neutral numbers 3 and 9 consider 5 as an enemy number. 8 is not considered as it is the most unfortunate one.
Suitable days for a number 5 person: Wednesday, Friday and Sunday (in order of priority)
Suitable dates for a number 5 person: 1, 5, 6, 10, 14, 15, 19, 23, 24, 25, 28 (see the use of double digit numbers in section 3 of this lesson) The combination of a suitable date and day, like a Sunday falling on a 1st or 10th, on a 5th or 25th works out to be better for a number 5 person. Here also the preference goes first to Wednesday, then to Friday, and then finally to Sunday.
Suitable colors and stones for a number 5 person: green and emerald (3 carats).
Suitable professions for a number 5 person are anything related to the characteristics of number 5 persons as explained in section 1 of individual numerology.

Number 6
For a number 6 person, the following numbers are stated to be in vibration and harmony with his or her birth date: 6, 5 (in order of priority). This order suggests that a number 6 person can have a name whose numerical value equals 6 or 5 when the equivalent values of the letters of his name are added up. Though number 6 considers 5 and 8 as friendly numbers, 8 has been dropped from the list of harmony numbers for reasons known to students. Number 6 is included as a harmony number as it is always in harmony and vibration with its own number. If a number 6 person has already had a name which equals to 2, 4, or 8 or any other number which is not in vibration with it numerically, he or she is advised to change his or her name as per the harmonious numbers suggested above. As a final alternative, a number 6 person can have a name which equals its neutral number 9. Another neutral number, 3, is not considered as 3 considers the number 6 as the enemy.
Suitable days for a number 6 person: Friday, Wednesday, and Tuesday (in order of priority)
Suitable dates for a number 6 person: 5, 6, 9, 14, 15, 18, 23,24,27(see the use of double digit numbers in section 3 of this lesson) The combination of a suitable date and day, like a Sunday falling on a 5th or 15th , on a 9th or 27th works out better for a number 6 person. Here also the preference goes first to Friday, Wednesday, and then finally to Tuesday.
Suitable colors and stones for a number 6 person: white and silver and diamond (1 carat).
Suitable professions for a number 6 person are anything related to the characteristics of number 6 persons as explained in section 1 of Individual Numerology.

Number 7
For a number 7 person, the following numbers are stated to be in vibration and harmony with his or her birth date: 1, 7 (in order of priority). This order suggests that a number 7 person can have a name whose numerical value equals 1 or 7 when the equivalent values of the letters of his name are added up. Though number 7 considers 1, 2, 4, and 5 as friendly numbers, 2 and 4 have been dropped from the list of harmony numbers for the reasons known to students. Number 5 has been dropped as it considers 7 as an enemy. Number 7 is included as a harmony number as it is always in harmony and vibration with its own number. If a number 7 person has already had a name which equals 2, 4, or 5 or any other number which is not in vibration with it numerically, he or she is advised to change his or her name as per the harmony numbers suggested above. As a final alternative, a number 7 person can have a name which equals its neutral numbers 3 and 9, as these numbers consider the former number as a friend. Neutral numbers 6 and 8 are not to be taken into account as these two numbers consider 7 as an enemy.
Suitable days for a number 7 person: Sunday, Thursday and Tuesday (in order of priority)
Suitable dates for a number 7 person: 1, 3, 7, 9,10, 12, 16, 18,19, 21, 25, 27,28, 30 (see the use of double digit numbers in section 3 of this lesson) The combination of a suitable date and day, like a Sunday falling on a 1st or 10th, on a 3rd or 21st works out to be better for a number 7 person. Here also the preference goes first to Sunday, then to Thursday and then finally to Tuesday.
Suitable colors and stone for a number 7 person: sun rise colors and ruby (3 carats).
Suitable professions for a number 7 person are anything related to the characteristics of number 7 persons as explained in section 1 of individual numerology. Number 8

For a number 8 person, the following numbers are stated to be in vibration and harmony with his or her birth date: 6, 5 (in order of priority). This order suggests that a number 8 person can have a name whose numerical value equals 6 or 5 when the equivalent values of the letters of his or her name are added up. Number 8 has not been included in the list of harmony numbers for reasons already explained. If a number 8 person has already had a name which equals 2, 4, or 8 or any other number which is not in vibration with it numerically, he or she is advised to change his or her name as per the harmonious numbers suggested above. As a final alternative, a number 8 person can have a name which equals its neutral number 3 which also considers 8 as a neutral number.
Suitable days for a number 8 person: Friday, Wednesday, and Thursday (in order of priority)
Suitable dates for a number 8 person: 3, 5, 6, 12,14,15,21,23,24,30 (see the use of double digit numbers in section 3 of this lesson) The combination of a suitable date and day, like a Sunday falling on a 5th or 15th , on a 3rd or 23rd works out to be better for a number 8 person. Here also the preference goes first to Friday, Wednesday and then finally to Thursday.
Suitable colors and stones for a number 8 person: white and silver colors and yellow sapphire (3 carats).
Suitable professions for a number 8 person are anything related to the characteristics of number 8 persons as explained in section 1 of individual numerology.

Number 9
For a number 9 person, the following numbers are stated to be in vibration and harmony with his or her birth date: 1, 3, 7 (in order of priority). This order suggests that a number 9 person can have a name whose numerical value equals 1, 3, or 7 when the equivalent values of the letters of his name are added up. Though number 9 considers 1, 2, 3, 4, 7, and 9 as friendly numbers, 2 and 4 have been dropped from the list of harmony numbers for reasons explained above. Number 9 is also dropped to avoid a repetition of its destructive power as it generally indicates quarrels, accidents and injuries. If a number 9 person has already had a name which equals 2, 4, or 9 or any other number which is not in vibration with it numerically, he or she is advised to change his or her name as per the harmonious numbers suggested above. As a final alternative, a number 9 person can have a name which equals its neutral number 6 as the latter, too, considers the former number as a neutral. Even though 8 is a neutral number, it is also dropped because of the reasons already explained.
Suitable days for a number 9 person: Sunday, Thursday and Friday (in order of priority)
Suitable dates for a number 9 person: 1, 3, 6, 7, 10, 12, 15, 16, 19, 21, 24, 25, 28, 30 (see the use of double digit numbers in section 3 of this lesson) The combination of a suitable date and day, like a Sunday falling on a 1st or 10th, on a 3rd or 21st works out to be better for a number 9 person. Here also the preference goes first to Sunday, then to Thursday, and then finally to Friday.
Suitable colors and stone for a number 9 person: sun rise colors and ruby (3 carats).
Suitable professions for a number 9 person are anything related to the characteristics of number 9 persons as explained in section 1 of individual numerology


External Relationship
Achieving harmony in internal relationships is the first and foremost step in order to have a highly harmonious and useful external relationship with others. External relationships are of several kinds and can not be specified, restricted, or defined in a limited manner as relations between people may vary depending on several factors and requirements.
Borrowing or lending money, buying or selling a thing, attending an interview or interviewing a person, constructing a house or working for somebody constructing a house, entering into a life or business partnership, traveling long or short distance for attending a function, joining a college or school for education and to see a movie or participate in an entertainment show, and so many other things in a person’s daily life come under the category of external relationship. As I explained earlier, it is very difficult to define the term external relationship but it can be safely stated that any thing or activity (other than personal) becomes an external activity.
Now comes up the question of how to have harmony and get successful results in relation to external activities.

For example, a number 1 person wants to enter into a business transaction with somebody. If the number 1 person knows what number person the opposite party is, it becomes easy for the former to deal with the latter and come out successful in the transaction. In case the number 1 person is dealing with a number 2 male or female, the former should take note of the fickle minded nature of the latter and take a cautious step in closing the deal. He must know that the number 2 person may change his or her mind or put in new conditions before the agreement is signed. But once the agreement is signed, the number 1 person may bring the person of number 2 under his command, as the latter does not have a strong mind and can easily be commanded. Still, a number 1 person gets irritated with the number 2 male or female with the latter’s wavering mind. In fact, a number 2 male or female can only exhibit his or her changing mind frequently and lose respect from others but can never harm others physically.
The only problem with them is that they are not reliable because of their fickle mindedness.
If the opposite party is a number 3 person, the deal may be a fair one since the number 3 person sticks to his or her principles or commitments. The deal would be a perfect one if the number 1 person deals with a number 4 man or woman, as the number 4 person stands for straightforwardness. If the person to be dealt with is a number 5 male or female, the transaction acquires a real commercial look as that person stands for materialistic and business outlook and uses his or her shrewd and cunning nature in having an upper hand over the number 1 person. If the person is of number 6, the number 1 person falls for the attractive nature and magnetic power of the former and loses ground in the transaction knowingly or unknowingly.
If the opposite party is of number 7, there may be a philosophical touch to the business agreement. A deal with a number 8 person will have some obstacles or be delayed. Entering into an agreement with a number 9 person may run into a rough weather as both the persons are of commanding and demanding nature. But once the agreement is signed, they can get along very well as both are friendly numbers. It must not be, however, forgotten that both of them may try to dominate each other and may still continue to be real friends.
Any transaction a number 1 person would have with another number 1 person will have equal pulls and pressures as both of them are of the same temperament. It must be noted that if the number 1 person enters into an agreement or a deal with others on a day or date favorable to him or her, the possible unfavorable tendencies emanating from the said agreement or deal he or she undertakes may come down. If the day or date is unfavorable, the unfavorable tendencies may go up causing further embarrassment for the number 1 person.

Use of double digit numbers
In both internal and external relationships, double digit numbers play an important role and the meanings of double digit numbers must be kept in mind in order to achieve internal and external harmony. Let us see an example to know its importance in relationship numerology:
For a number 1 person, 28 is also one of the suitable dates. But the meaning of the double digit number 28 (please refer to section 3 of value numerology) is a number of great promises. It indicates loss through trust in others, opposition, competition in trade, and danger through law agencies. It also represents a person beginning his life again and making a new beginning again.
Though it is a number of great promises, for all important things this date must be avoided as it indicates several unfavorable aspects also. Especially while dealing with some governmental agencies or officials, the involvement of number 28 should not be seen anywhere as the number indicates danger through law agencies. So, it may be a suitable date for a number 1 person but still he or she should avoid using it. To state it clearly, a person should not deal with another person who represents the number 28 in some form or other. A person is said to be representing the number 28 when he resides in a house whose number is 28, whose vehicle number is 28, who lives on a street whose number is 28, or whose birth date is 28. For these people, life begins again and again. They will also lose money because of the trust imposed in others. Keeping this in view, one should avoid dates or people, things, or events representing the double digit numbers having some unfavorable or dangerous meanings. Everywhere and at every minute, one should be careful of these double digit numbers to avoid unhappiness in life.
Important note
If you come across anything with a numerical value in your life at any point in time, see the meaning of its value and act accordingly. If you do not find any value, convert its name to a numerical value by applying the method explained in section 1 of value numerology. To find out if a person, thing, or event is in vibration with you, see the number represented by the person, thing, or event and check thoroughly the numbers of vibration and harmony mentioned in the section 2 of this lesson.